Doesn't matter? Finn furrows his brow in confusion and glances to the bed. He doesn't understand. Did Poe mean their relationship or Base One or comfort in peacetime or some mix of it all?

Eventually, Finn straightens up a little. "I can't. I can't know what you want or even what I might want. That has to be your decision. I can't make it for you... Whatever it is, I want you to be happy. And maybe you don't know what that is right now but there's time to find out."

He could never take advantage, try to mold Poe into everything he had been and pretend this never happened. He was the same man but that didn't mean he'd love the same things... or the same people. The reset button had been pressed and now they had to deal with it.