I'd like to see you try and resist it. That alone should have been an answer, and this the confirmation. He watched Poe stroke himself, wanting to get involved while knowing it was a really bad idea. That was Poe's entire point, though.

"I'm not playing," he answered back a little wobbly, finally looking up at Poe. "I don't want to be played with either. This- This is good - it can be good - but I know what I want. I can control that on my own."

It took effort to try and ignore what Poe was doing. Effort that Finn didn't have a lot of after what they just did. He swallowed again, looking Poe over, looking generally unsure. He just wanted this to be good - good for both of them. "I want you, but this is-... I've been controlled before. I know what it's like."

Which is what he hated the most. Why did he still want it?