So, Poe's abuser tried to leave him and Poe tried to blow up his speeder in response. Finn gripped his arm, hoping it felt like reassurance when really it was just to stabilize himself. If he tried to do that to someone who hurt him from the start, what the hell would he do to Finn?

He let out a slow, quiet breath. "It was good that he left you, then. You were able to do things on your own. You saved the galaxy without him holding you back."

But that implied that this Admiral had done something right.