The first time they took her, so long ago, they had... nearly forced her to stay. Poe was determined to force her, anyway, but it didn't seem that she needed it. Their love for each other bloomed quickly and naturally.

Regardless, Finn wasn't up for insinuating a repeat, even if they did... just kidnap her... again...

Anyway- "We want to give you everything, not take things away. We only want your happiness." Well, it was the most important factor. Her companionship also meant a great deal. "No pomegranate unless you like the taste. But whatever you decide to do, we'd love to go with you."